Spiritual Consequences of Having Sex Before Marriage
“No matter how much cats fight, there always seem to be plenty of kittens.”
Abraham Lincoln
To find the Truth, you need to go to the Source. When you make love, you return to the Source where you came from. You become Divine, able to create another human being in your own image.
Sex is a gateway between born spirits and unborn spirits, between one dimension and another, between life and death. Through sex, you return to the Origin of Life. You can continue to live forever as long as your union is fruitful and multiplies. This is the wisdom of Tantra.
According to a research by Sagepub, at least 90% of Americans first have sex prior to marriage, usually with someone who is not their eventual spouse.
And according to the American Psychological Association, approximately 40-50% of first marriages in the US ended in divorce in 2022. The divorce rate for second and third marriages is much higher, with the rate being 67% and 73% in 2023, respectively.
From a spiritual point of view, having premarital sex is neither good nor bad, but it’s about the consequences of your actions. Every action has its reactions, and every reaction can cause another chain of action and reaction.
The Divine Nature of Sex
What is easy to get into but hard to get out?
It’s sex.
When you have sex with someone, you form an invisible astral tube or psychic cord in your subtle bodies that could last at least 12 years. This cord links your Muladhara (Root) chakra together.
“For this reason, a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh; so then they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.”
Mark 10: 7-10
This means when you break up with someone, you still have the emotional, psychological, and spiritual connection with that person at least 12 years after your breakup. Yet, this is just a one-night stand level.
The more frequency and emotions associated with this act, the longer it takes to get rid of the psychic cord, which can make your sexual karma last more than a lifetime.
This cord is meant to enhance the quality of your marriage because it is where your psychic communication channel comes from. Sometimes, you can just “know” your partner’s thoughts and emotions because this invisible cord enhances your telepathic connection.
This explains why even after 5 years, 10 years, and even 40 years after the breakup, you’ll still remember and feel the pain related to your ex-spouse or ex-partner. It’s this psychic cord that makes your separation unbearable as you feel like you have lost a part of yourself, because in fact, a part of you rest with your partner.
Their thoughts become your thoughts; their emotions become your emotions; and spiritually, their karma becomes your karma, making you bear the suffering of someone you don’t want to have a connection with.
Spiritual Consequences of Having Sex Before Marriage
Sex is not only a physical act, but an energetic, emotional, and spiritual union between a man and a woman.
Casual sex outside of marriage can create a lifelong negative soul tie. Your children will sometimes look like their great grandparents because the spiritual consequences of sex can have a generational impact. Sex can have far-reaching consequences in that people who committed sexual immorality in the past were stoned to death.
Contrary to popular beliefs, you cannot cut a negative soul tie by praying, meditating, visualizing, forgiving, or blocking contact. It’s like you borrow someone 6 million dollars and want to do a magical ritual to be debt-free!
You must pay back what you owe to others. If you don’t want to pay, you will be forced to pay by the laws of the universe.
The price for having premarital sex is suffering in your marriage(s), mishaps in love, infertility, sexual diseases (HIV/AIDS), sexual health problems, lack of meaning in life, lack of inner fulfillment, unplanned pregnancy, etc.
Particularly in romantic relationships, you really can’t have the good relationship that you expect it to be. Sex can cloud your judgment and make you ignore red flags by creating a hormone called “Oxytocin”, which makes you believe there is true intimacy while there is just temporary pleasure.
You may naturally want to secure the bond between you and your sexual partner. This is our human nature: you don’t want to lose the person you have sex with, nor do you want someone else to have sex with them.
Unfortunately, having sex before marriage tends to get worse with women because their bodies are yin by nature.
Yin is passive while yang is active. Yin receives while yang gives. So women are more receptive when storing the essence men give them.
If the man is full of lust, the woman will store that. If the woman has had sex with multiple partners, she will store “karmic information” of all her previous partners, affecting her ability to produce healthy offspring.
If a man sleeps with a woman who has slept with many men before, he will sleep with all other men, becoming their “brother by blood and semen”.
This is why all men like chaste women. If they do not like chaste women, they are not men.
Moreover, a woman’s womb is sacred because she is divine. From this womb can come either a divine human being or a demon in human flesh, depending on her level of sexual purity.
There is a spiritual reason why most religions (Christianity, Islam, Judaism, Hinduism, Buddhism, Sikhism) forbid or discourage premarital sex.
Science doesn’t favor it either.
According to Ifstudies, the odds of divorce are lowest with 0 or 1 premarital sexual partner. Women with 10 or more partners were the most likely to divorce. Premarital sex increases the chances of divorce between twofold and threefold.
Some argue premarital sex allows couples to “test compatibility” or see if they are sexually compatible before marriage. But true compatibility is about so much more than just physical pleasure – it’s about your shared life goals, values, communication, and commitment to each other through life’s ups and downs.
How to Cut a Sexual Cord or Negative Soul Tie
The challenges you’re going through in your romantic relationship(s)/ marriage(s) are directly traced back to your own karmic debts.
The truth is no one wouldn’t dare to cut your negative soul tie, because they would need to suffer in your place instead.
To completely remove your karmic debts, you must follow an authentic spiritual practice. You need to understand the Truth and the karmic reasons behind things.
There is only one person in the world who can teach the Great Law of the Universe – Master Li Hong Zhi. He can help you understand the root cause of your problem, how to fix them, and how to return to your original nature.
If you’re truly serious about eliminating your karma, you should read my article about Dafa – Your Way Back “Home”. Master Li Hong Zhi can help you with your current situation as long as you follow the higher principles of the universe, ones that align with who you truly are.