“The problem is not that marriage is difficult—the problem is that we expect it to be easy.” Wise Cultivator 1. Death Will Part You—So Love Fiercely While You Can One day, either you or your partner will have to say goodbye. Life is fleeting. Love while you can, so there is no regret. Nothing else matters. 2. Your Partner Will Change No person remains the same over decades. The partner you marry is a snapshot of who they are in one moment. Marriage demands that you love not just who they are now, but who they will become. Sometimes, that future self aligns with your vision; other times, it challenges…

Men cannot exist without women, Nor can women exist without men. When you put two drops of water together, they become one. They were independent, now are interdependent. To stand alone is to know oneself, To stand together is to know the universe. Reflect a man’s inner life, we can see his wife. Reflect a woman’s outer expression, we can see her husband. Seeking a good husband, the woman sees herself as bad. Seeking a good wife, the man learns to become a good husband. If a woman seeks commitment, she has to offer freedom. If a man seeks freedom, he has to commit. When a woman is sad, do…

1. Remote Control, Out of Control Tom and Sarah have been married for 10 years. Tom loved watching TV, while Sarah loved talking. One day, Sarah decided she’d had enough of Tom ignoring her for the TV. She said, “Tom, if you don’t start listening to me more, I’m going to leave you!” Tom nodded, eyes still glued to the screen. The next day, Sarah packed her bags and left. Tom didn’t notice this for three whole days. When he finally realized Sarah was gone, he called her. “Where are you?” Tom asked. “I told you I’d leave if you didn’t listen to me!” Sarah replied. Tom thought for a…

“What is the most sacred thing on earth?” It’s sex. In the beginning, there was sex. We come to this world because of sex. Tantra is a path of sexual illumination. It is not a technique, but a path to walk that has a divine outcome. To be a true tantric practitioner, you must be initiated by a woman. Just as King Arthur receives the Excalibur from the Lady of the Lake, you must have sexual intercourse with the “sacred whore” to receive the esoteric teachings of Tantra. Who are the sacred whores? They are the divine embodiment of Shakti, the consort of Shiva. Shakti and Shiva are the feminine…

Our true “home” is not on this earth. To go back to our “home”, we must follow a true spiritual cultivation practice. The Great Way of Cultivation to a high level is called Falun Dafa. It is an ancient self-cultivation practice based on the authentic teachings of the Buddha School. Dafa is not a religion; it has no form. You don’t have to pay any fee to gain Dafa because money is not the thing we take with us when we leave this life. Yet Dafa will assure you cultivate to be a good person in any situation, and that your qualities are assimilated with the immutable qualities of the universe. From…