North Node-North Node Aspects in Synastry
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Disclaimer: This article represents a few interpretations among countless interpretations of synastry. I have 900+ synastry aspects in total, so you should check your whole synastry chart instead of one aspect within it.
North Node Conjunct North Node Synastry
With North Node conjunct North Node synastry, you motivate each other to live your life purposes. The purpose is remembered, not found. It’s less about finding something new and more about remembering who you are.
You remind each other that you’re the meaning you seek. The purpose isn’t out there; it’s within you. You can’t seek something external to fill an inner void.
This aspect suggests a destined connection. You’re brought together to learn the same karmic lessons. You empower each other to become the best versions of yourselves.
The conjunction can bring an intense focus on self-improvement, but you also learn to put yourselves in each other’s shoes.
North Node Sextile North Node Synastry
With North Node sextile North Node synastry, you encourage each other to become your truest self. You help one another release attachments to who you were, because you are who you choose to be now.
Your process of self-improvement can complement each other beautifully. When one faces a challenge, the other may have just overcome a similar obstacle.
You can awaken each other’s natural gifts. You motivate each other to take necessary risks for growth. You empower each other to overcome the fear of failure, because if you don’t, you will suffer from the fear of regrets. You inspire each other to live your highest purposes.
North Node Square North Node Synastry
With North Node square North Node synastry, you can learn deep karmic lessons in this relationship. You challenge each other to do things you’re supposed to do.
You may disagree over the general life direction. One may strive for material achievements, while the other may seek inner peace, for example. The square can indicate some degree of selfishness needing to be resolved.
While you push each other to overcome fears, comfort zones, and ingrained childhood patterns, your methods of growth can conflict. But in conflicts lie the solutions. Just like most businesses make money by providing solutions to society, you both can see opportunities in the problems.
North Node Trine North Node Synastry
With North Node trine North Node synastry, you encourage each other to walk your true life path. In the pursuit of material success, something is added every day. On the true path, something is dropped every day.1
You can guard each other against the pursuit of material wealth as a means to fulfill your life purposes. You remind one another that you can’t fill an inner void by looking for something external. To seek wisdom, you both look within.
As you work together on self-improvement, you empower each other to develop inner strength regardless of outer circumstances. Your outer circumstances don’t decide where you can go. They only decide where you can start.2
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North Node Opposite North Node Synastry
North Node opposite North Node synastry suggests you have a karmic history together, possibly involving some unresolved conflicts. You were likely past-life partners.
The problems arising in the relationship are often reflections of the internal struggles you each need to address. It isn’t about the fighters in the fight; it’s about the fights within the fighters. The fights against your fears, comfort zones, and past versions of yourself.
As each person triggers the other’s growth points, your unconscious karmic patterns will rise to the surface. If you do not resolve the issues, your life paths may clash. You may not have the same vision for the future. There can be periods of intense self-reflection and self-work.
- Inspiration from Lao Tzu ↩︎
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