Pluto-Lilith Aspects in Synastry

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Disclaimer: This article represents a few interpretations among countless interpretations of synastry. For a deeper understanding, check out my comprehensive list of synastry aspects.

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Pluto Conjunct Lilith Synastry

With Pluto conjunct Lilith synastry, you can feel an intense sexual attraction toward each other. Your relationship is like a car wash because you want to get wet.

Is it a Tesla Model S? You can find each other Sexy, Sassy, Steamy, and Spicy. Do you have an exhaust pipe? You can easily make each other’s engine overheat. You should drive on a highway so you can go full speed with no limit. Avoid speed bumps, or you’ll go up and down on each other. Enjoy the ride!

Indeed, Pluto-Lilith conjunction can create a strong attachment between you. You can feel deep emotions in this bond. You can feel safe sharing your secrets, fears, dreams, and vulnerable sides with each other.

Pluto can help Lilith embrace their true nature, while Lilith can lower Pluto’s guard and soften their need for control. You can sense a deep mystery in each other.

Pluto Sextile Lilith Synastry

With Pluto sextile Lilith synastry, Pluto can help Lilith release old guilt and self-criticism about their sexuality. Pluto can be curious about Lilith’s forgotten memories. Pluto can empower Lilith to heal their hurts through a complete self-transformation.

Pluto can also encourage Lilith to be more authentic in their passion. Pluto can urge Lilith to harness their sexual energy for spiritual purposes.

In turn, Lilith can strengthen Pluto’s courage to stand out from the crowd. Lilith can motivate Pluto to let go of toxic associations that weigh them down.

Lilith can awaken Pluto’s curiosity about the mystical aspects of existence. Lilith can sharpen Pluto’s intuition about the unseen.

Pluto Square Lilith Synastry

With Pluto square Lilith synastry, Pluto can be suspicious of Lilith’s secrets. Pluto can be so insecure that they seek absolute control over Lilith’s freedom.

But Lilith is the will that doesn’t submit. Lilith may rebel against Pluto, even when Pluto wants to prevent Lilith from potential losses.

Mind games can poison the trust. Lilith may sometimes deliberately trigger Pluto’s jealousy, while Pluto can be violent in their reactions.

Pluto Trine Lilith Synastry

With Pluto trine Lilith synastry, Pluto can strengthen Lilith’s will to self-transform for a complete freedom. True freedom is like a caged bird; the bird is free to sing in whatever cage it is in. Freedom is inner, not outer. Pluto can empower Lilith to master their self-imposed restrictions.

In turn, Lilith can inspire Pluto to walk their path despite people’s criticism. Lilith can strengthen Pluto’s determination to be reborn in places where they died. The mountain Pluto once feared to climb has not grown smaller; Pluto has grown larger.

Lilith can encourage Pluto to develop self-confidence where there was self-blame. Like a blacksmith tempers metal with heat, Lilith can teach Pluto that great pressure builds great character.

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Pluto Opposite Lilith Synastry

There can be complex psychological games with Pluto opposite Lilith synastry. Pluto may want total control of the relationship, but Lilith craves autonomy. Pluto may use violent methods to overpower Lilith’s strong will, yet Lilith may rebel. Anger can be destructive in this bond.

Lilith can also use sex as a tool to manipulate Pluto’s weakness. Lilith may intentionally provoke Pluto’s jealousy as a way to feel desirable. Pluto may react destructively to Lilith’s manipulation. Pluto tends to be possessive of Lilith due to insecurity.

In the end, you can realize that love isn’t about being right; it’s about being kind even when your partner is wrong. Speak when you’re angry, and you’ll make the best speech you’ll ever regret.¹

Quote from Laurence J. Peter ↩︎