North Node in the 7th House

With North Node in the 7th house, you’re learning to move away from the realm of “me” into “we”. You may find it difficult to let others take the lead or make decisions that affect you.

You may think that if you want something done right, you should do it yourself. This stems from your South Node in the 1st house, where autonomy and self-direction are your second nature.

While self-reliance is certainly a strength, your soul is now seeking balance through relationship and collaboration. You learn to walk side-by-side with another person, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and sometimes financially too.

Your career can advance most significantly when you team up rather than work independently. Your marriage partner can also teach you much about love, self-sacrifice, and compromise. Your growth comes when you begin to trust others and value their opinions.

North Node in the 7th house is a karmic mirror. You can see yourself in others. Through interactions with your loved ones and even open enemies, you can discover your greatest strengths and weaknesses. You may find the same themes keep appearing across different relationships.

Instead of blaming others, consider what these karmic patterns try to teach you. Drop the sword. And pick up the rose. You’re here to become selfless rather than selfish, to understand that love is not your distraction; it is your direction.