Chiron-Chiron Aspects in Synastry

“Suffering comes not from what we lost, but from our resistance to losing it.”

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Disclaimer: This article represents a few interpretations among countless interpretations of synastry. I have 900+ synastry aspects in total, so you should check your whole synastry chart instead of one aspect within it.

Chiron Conjunct Chiron Synastry

Chiron conjunct Chiron synastry indicates you’re either of similar age or around 50 years apart. You may have mutual scars, which creates an unspoken understanding. You can intuitively understand the depth of each other’s suffering in a way others cannot.

This mutual recognition can make you feel deeply accepted in the relationship. Your souls can communicate through the language of shared experiences.

As you help each other navigate wounds, you might just stumble upon the cure for yourself. You can foster empathy, forgiveness, and compassion when dealing with each other’s mistakes.

This aspect can also bring a divine purpose to the relationship, as if your union is meant to catalyze both personal and collective healing. Together, you can be drawn to humanitarian pursuits, becoming a beacon of hope for those struggling with similar hurts.

Chiron Sextile Chiron Synastry

Chiron sextile Chiron synastry can speak of a soul-level agreement to heal each other. You can remind one another that the healing path isn’t meant to walk alone. This aspect can create a profound sense of camaraderie and acceptance between you.

Together, you may actively look for healing opportunities instead of waiting for them. You may regularly swap self-help books or share your favorite spiritual blogs, for instance.

The beauty of this aspect is its gentleness. You each don’t confront your wounds intensely, but rather explore them with peace. You can bring light and forgive each other’s dark sides.

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Chiron Square Chiron Synastry

Like the centaur Chiron who was accidentally wounded by Hercules’ arrow, Chiron square Chiron synastry can suggest one of you unintentionally hurt the other. You’re called to embrace the karmic lesson this aspect brings: your words, actions, and attitude can profoundly affect each other.

You must be careful about your carelessness, or you may project your unresolved pain onto your partner. For example, if one person has trust issues, they might interpret their partner’s need for independence as rejection, even when that’s not the intent.

The square can also create a sort of “wounded healer’s dilemma.” You can see each other’s hurts clearly, but your attempts to help can worsen things. You will eventually realize that you can’t heal your partner unless they want to heal themselves.

Chiron Trine Chiron Synastry

Chiron trine Chiron synastry can create a natural understanding between you. You can speak the same language of hurt and healing. There’s a sense of “I’ve been there too” that creates a deep bond.

This aspect can foster good intuition in the relationship. You can empathize with each other’s childhood trauma and be tolerant of each other’s weaknesses.

The best thing is you can share healing wisdom. You can approach past wounds with a sense of hope, believing in your ability to overcome challenges together. You understand that your life is a sunny path, so you don’t let a few rainy days ruin the whole path.

Chiron Opposite Chiron Synastry

With Chiron opposite Chiron synastry, you can see the reflection of your wounds in your partner. What you feel irritated in your partner can teach you much wisdom about yourself.

You may react strongly to each other’s weaknesses, only to later realize that you’re dealing with your own weaknesses. You may project insecurities onto each other, which can create a cycle of blame, making it difficult to take responsibility for your mistakes.

Breaking this cycle requires you to understand that it’s not about the fighters in the fight, but it’s about the fights within the fighters. The fights within yourself can manifest as the fights without. You’re not fighting your partner, but fighting unhealed aspects of yourself.