Sun-Lilith Aspects in Synastry
“There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.”
Frederiche Nietzsche
Disclaimer: This article represents a few interpretations among countless interpretations of synastry.
Sun Conjunct Lilith Synastry
Sun conjunct Lilith synastry is a love spell that can make you go to hell to pick a flower. This aspect can indicate intense attraction and passion.
To Lilith – the Dark Moon, the Sun shines brighter than anyone else. Lilith is the goddess of seduction, so they can capture the Sun’s attention through subtleness. They have their psychological tactics that inspire the Sun to share their secrets.
The Sun can be obsessed with Lilith’s alluring nature. They may feel a mysterious feeling. The Sun may hide their involvement with Lilith due to the fear of others’ disapproval. But Lilith can fuel the Sun’s confidence to stand up for their own choices.
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Sun Sextile Lilith Synastry
Sun sextile Lilith synastry can create a thrilling tension, like the moment before biting into a chocolate with an unknown filling. There’s excitement, anticipation, and just a hint of danger…
Under Lilith’s influence, the Sun can become interested in the occult aspects of sexuality. The Sun wants to deeply merge their “self” with the Dark Moon.
Through sacred sex like Tantra, Lilith can guide the Sun to reach new heights of sensual delights. But this comes with a cost. The Sun needs to die to live, to go low to rise high, to experience pain to enjoy pleasure. This is called the Law of Rhythm. What goes up will go down.
Lilith often feels emboldened to embrace their sensuality. The Sun motivates Lilith to overcome their dark sexual side. Lilith gains the confidence to be the Queen of Twilight. Even when the sun sets, Lilith gains self-awareness and hope until the sunrise.
Sun Square Lilith Synastry
The core issue of Sun square Lilith synastry is about control. The Sun is masculine, while Lilith is the untamed feminine resisting masculine dominance. So power struggles are likely to happen, just like the mythology between Lilith and Adam.
In one myth, Lilith refused to lie under Adam when they had intercourse. She felt that because they were both made of the same dust, she shouldn’t have to lie underneath him. Lilith left the Garden of Eden to exert her independence.
Hence, Sun-Lilith square can indicate equality issues. You may also face problems about sexual freedom and boundaries.
Sun Trine Lilith Synastry
With Sun trine Lilith synastry, the Sun encourages Lilith to develop personal power. Where old shame depleted Lilith’s confidence, the Sun can build it back up.
With the Sun’s encouragement, Lilith can shed people-pleasing patterns and honor their independence. The Sun can empower Lilith to boldly stand in their worth.
Lilith feels seen and understood under the Sun’s warmth. Lilith can heal the Sun’s sexually wounded self. They promote the Sun’s self-acceptance, including the parts society often deems unacceptable.
The Sun motivates Lilith to develop their masculine side, while Lilith encourages the Sun to embrace their feminine self. Together, Sun-Lilith trine is a harmony between the Sun’s yang and Lilith’s yin.
Sun Opposite Lilith Synastry
Sun opposite Lilith synastry is like a match between day and night. This aspect can start as a powerful physical attraction. The Sun is strongly drawn to Lilith’s seductive energy. Correspondingly, the Sun’s self-assurance can charm Lilith. The keyword here is “intensity”, be it emotional, physical, or sexual.
As time goes on, the Sun may challenge Lilith to make more conscious choices for their unconscious patterns. The Sun wants to guide Lilith toward better self-awareness.
But Lilith may rebel against the Sun’s leadership. Lilith may react by becoming more extreme in their behavior or withdrawing into isolation. This aspect can stir up power struggles, cold wars, and silent treatment.