Sun-Lilith Aspects in Synastry
“There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.”
Frederiche Nietzsche
Disclaimer: This article represents a few interpretations among countless interpretations of synastry. I have 900+ synastry aspects in total, so you should check your whole synastry chart instead of one aspect within it.
Sun Conjunct Lilith Synastry
Sun conjunct Lilith synastry can indicate intense attraction and passion in the relationship. To Lilith – the Dark Moon, the Sun can shine brighter than anyone else. Lilith can seduce the Sun with their hidden charisma. Lilith’s playful tactics can lure the Sun to share their secrets.
The Sun can feel a mysterious feeling toward Lilith. The Sun may find themselves drawn into rebellious experiences that challenge social expectations.
The Sun can illuminate parts of Lilith that usually remain hidden in the dark. The Sun can remind Lilith that the lowest conceals the highest.
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Sun Sextile Lilith Synastry
With Sun sextile Lilith synastry, you can find each other mysteriously attractive, like the moment before you bite into a chocolate with an unknown filling. There are excitement, anticipation, and just a hint of danger in the relationship…
Lilith can inspire the Sun to study the occult aspects of sexuality. The Sun may want to deeply merge their “self” with Lilith. Through sacred sex like Tantra, Lilith can guide the Sun to reach new heights of sensual delights.
But this can come with a cost. The Sun may need to die to live, to go low to rise high, to experience pain to enjoy pleasure. This is called the Law of Rhythm. What goes up will go down.
Lilith can feel free to embrace their sensuality. The Sun can motivate Lilith to overcome their dark sexual side. Lilith can gain the confidence to be the Queen of Twilight. Even when the sun sets, Lilith can gain self-awareness and hope until the sunrise.
Sun Square Lilith Synastry
The core issue of Sun square Lilith synastry can be tied to control. The Sun is masculine, while Lilith is the untamed feminine resisting masculine dominance. So power struggles can happen, just like the mythology between Lilith and Adam.
In one myth, Lilith refused to lie under Adam when they had intercourse. She felt that because they were both made of the same dust, she shouldn’t have to lie underneath him. Lilith left the Garden of Eden to exert her independence.
Hence, Sun-Lilith square can indicate equality issues. You may also face problems with sexual freedom, trust, and boundaries.
Sun Trine Lilith Synastry
With Sun trine Lilith synastry, the Sun can encourage Lilith to develop personal power. Where old shame depleted Lilith’s confidence, the Sun can build it back up.
Lilith can feel seen and understood under the Sun’s warmth. Lilith can shed people-pleasing patterns and honor their individuality. The Sun can empower Lilith to boldly stand in their worth.
Lilith can also heal the Sun’s sexually wounded self. Lilith can urge the Sun to embrace self-acceptance in the parts society deems unacceptable.
Lilith can encourage the Sun to embrace their feminine power, while the Sun can motivate Lilith to develop their masculine self. Together, Sun-Lilith trine is a harmony between the Sun’s yang and Lilith’s yin.
Sun Opposite Lilith Synastry
Sun opposite Lilith synastry is like a match between day and night. This aspect can start as a powerful physical attraction. Lilith’s sex appeal can seduce the Sun. Correspondingly, the Sun’s self-confidence can charm Lilith. The relationship has “intensity”, be it emotional, spiritual, or sexual.
However, the Sun can challenge Lilith to make more conscious choices for their unconscious patterns. The Sun can guide Lilith to become more self-aware.
But Lilith may rebel against the Sun’s leadership. Lilith may react by becoming more extreme in their behaviors instead of correcting their mistakes. This aspect can stir up power struggles, cold wars, and violence.