Mars-Lilith Aspects in Synastry
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Disclaimer: This article represents a few interpretations among countless interpretations of synastry. I have 900+ synastry aspects in total, so you should check your whole synastry chart instead of one aspect within it.
Mars Conjunct Lilith Synastry
Mars conjunct Lilith synastry is one of the most intense contacts for sexual attraction. Mars represents the masculine, while Lilith governs the feminine. Mars rules Iron so he can be Lilith’s Man. Mars is like a banker because Mars has Lilith’s interest.
You can feel a raw magnetism towards each other that is hard to ignore. Something about your partner activates your erotic instincts.
You give each other permission to unleash your hidden sides in the bedroom. Mars’ reliability can soothe Lilith’s sexual fear, while Lilith can bring spirituality to Mars’ physicality. You may be interested in Tantra together.
The biggest challenge is likely a lack of commitment. Both Mars and Lilith seek freedom, so responsibility may disappear after the fun. Too much freedom in this bond can also cause jealousy and possessiveness.
Mars-Lilith conjunction requires you both to deal with jealousy at its root. Jealousy is less about the external situation and more about internal fears and inadequacies.
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Mars Sextile Lilith Synastry
With Mars sextile Lilith synastry, you are enthusiastic about exploring each other intimately. There is a sense of playfulness and excitement about sex.
Mars can activate Lilith’s sexual confidence, making Lilith feel safe to express their adventurous side. Lilith’s sex appeal can enhance Mars’ stamina in the bedroom. Lilith may not feel ashamed about their sexual self, but accepted. Mars can empower Lilith to be who they are in the creative play.
Mars can also activate the rebel in Lilith. Where Lilith felt confined before, they now feel stirred to resist constraints and assert their personal power.
Courageous Mars can ignite Lilith’s urge to stand out from the crowd. Mars can embolden Lilith to do what others don’t do, to disobey unjust authority, and to subvert toxic social programs.
Mars Square Lilith Synastry
With Mars square Lilith synastry, Mars may rashly trigger Lilith’s sexual shame, so Lilith may hurt Mars’ passion by rejecting Mars’ advances. Lilith’s ambiguity can anger Mars, while Mars’ independence can activate Lilith’s insecurity.
Most likely, you may dive into sexual intimacy too soon without heeding warning signs. Mars can be forceful in matters of sex, while Lilith can use sex as a tool for manipulation.
Lilith’s mood swings can also strongly affect Mars’ temper. Mars may not sit well with Lilith’s dark side.
You both should watch out for verbal conflicts turning physical. Actions/Reactions in this relationship tend to be extreme, so you both should practice self-control.
Mars Trine Lilith Synastry
With Mars trine Lilith synastry, Mars can find in Lilith a kindred spirit in their refusal to be governed by injustice. Lilith’s personal strength can embolden Mars. Lilith’s unwillingness to follow the crowd can make Mars feel more driven to fight oppressive forces together.
In turn, Lilith can find in Mars a powerful protector. Mars can protect yet energize Lilith to express their true self, including aspects that may have been repressed by others in the past. Mars’ boldness can motivate Lilith to change.
Mars-Lilith trine can also foster freedom and equality in the relationship. You can make each other feel liberated with commitment. Mars can discipline Lilith’s wild energy, while Lilith can foster Mars’ self-mastery.
Mars Opposite Lilith Synastry
Mars opposite Lilith synastry can indicate a powerful sexual attraction. Mars’ physicality can trigger Lilith’s desire for a fiery union. But your attraction can have a jealous and addictive element within it.
Lilith may lure Mars into psychedelic substances to enhance the sexual bliss. Mars can be impatient when pursuing ecstasy with Lilith.
Outside the bedroom, Lilith’s headstrong nature can be the reason for Mars’ headache. Lilith’s refusal to submit to their will can irritate Mars. Lilith may break rules and commitments, which can lead to Mars breaking some dishes.