Mars-Lilith Aspects in Synastry
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Disclaimer: This article represents a few interpretations among countless interpretations of synastry.
Mars Conjunct Lilith Synastry
Mars conjunct Lilith synastry is one of the most intense contacts for sexual attraction. Mars represents the masculine, while Lilith governs the feminine. Mars rules Iron so he can be Lilith’s Man. Mars is a banker because he has Lilith’s interest.
You feel a raw magnetism towards each other that is impossible to ignore. Something about your partner activates your erotic instincts.
You give each other permission to unleash your hidden sides in the bedroom. Mars’ reliability can soothe Lilith’s sexual fear, while Lilith can bring spirituality to Mars’ physicality. You both may be interested in Tantra.
The biggest challenge is a lack of commitment. Mars is independent, while Lilith is also independent. Responsibility may disappear after the fun. There can also be jealousy and possessiveness due to too much freedom.
This relationship requires you both to deal with jealousy at its root. Jealousy isn’t about the other person; it’s about parts of yourself that feel unloved.
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Mars Sextile Lilith Synastry
With Mars sextile Lilith synastry, you are enthusiastic about exploring each other intimately. There’s a sense of playfulness and excitement about sex.
Mars activates Lilith’s sexual confidence, making Lilith feel safe to express their adventurous side. Lilith’s sex appeal enhances Mars’ stamina in the bedroom. Lilith doesn’t feel ashamed about their sexual self, but accepted. Mars empowers Lilith to be who they are in the creative play.
Mars can also activate the rebel in Lilith. Where Lilith felt confined before, they now feel stirred to resist constraints and assert their personal power.
Courageous Mars ignites Lilith’s urge to stand out from the crowd. Mars emboldens Lilith to do what others don’t do, to disobey unjust authority, and to subvert toxic social programs.
Mars Square Lilith Synastry
With Mars square Lilith synastry, Mars may rashly trigger Lilith’s sexual shame, while Lilith may hurt Mars’ passion by rejecting Mars’ advances. Mars’ independence can activate Lilith’s insecurity, while Lilith’s ambiguity can anger Mars.
Sometimes, you both may dive into sexual intimacy too soon, without heeding warning signs. Mars can be forceful in matters of sex, while Lilith can use sex as manipulation.
Mars can be easily energized, while Lilith can be moody. Hence, Lilith’s mood swings can strongly affect Mars’ temper.
You both should watch out for verbal conflicts turning physical. Actions/Reactions in this relationship tend to be extreme.
Mars Trine Lilith Synastry
With Mars trine Lilith synastry, Mars can find in Lilith a kindred spirit in their refusal to be governed by injustice. Lilith’s personal strength emboldens Mars. Lilith’s unwillingness to follow the crowd makes Mars feel more driven to fight oppressive forces together.
Lilith can find in Mars a powerful protector. Mars protects yet energizes Lilith to express their true nature, including aspects that may have been repressed by others in the past. Mars’ boldness motivates Lilith to change, while Lilith’s determination reassures Mars’ fear.
This aspect fosters freedom and equality in the relationship. You can make each other feel liberated with commitment. Mars can discipline Lilith’s wild energy, while Lilith can promote Mars’ self-mastery.
Mars Opposite Lilith Synastry
Mars opposite Lilith synastry can indicate a powerful sexual attraction. Mars’ physicality seems alluring to Lilith’s desire for a fiery union. But the attraction can have a jealous and addictive element within it.
Lilith may lure Mars into psychedelic substances to enhance the sexual bliss. Mars can be impatient when pursuing ecstasy with Lilith.
Outside the bedroom, Lilith’s headstrong nature can be the reason for Mars’ headache. Lilith’s refusal to submit to their will may irritate Mars. Lilith may break rules and commitments, which can lead to Mars breaking some dishes.