Wisdom Stories

The Wisdom of Love

What is a man but half a woman?

What is a woman but half a man?

Reflect a man’s inner life, we see his wife.

Reflect a woman’s outer expression, we see her husband.


Seeking a good husband, the woman sees herself as bad.

Seeking a good wife, the man learns to become a good husband.

If a woman seeks commitment, she has to offer freedom.

If a man seeks freedom, he has to commit.


When a woman is sad, do not laugh.

When a man is happy, do not cry.

Don’t offer advice when others don’t need.

Don’t talk when others don’t listen.


The pain of happiness is illusion.

The joy of suffering is wisdom.

When things go extreme, they will reverse.

A harmonious couple seeks nothing,

They let things take their course.


In the bedroom, go harder, and you become weak.

Go faster, and you become slow.

Give up all desires, then you will have all things you desire.

Lose everything, so you can gain everything.