Chiron-Chiron Aspects in Synastry

“Suffering comes not from what we lost, but from our resistance to losing it.”

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Disclaimer: This article represents a few interpretations among countless interpretations of synastry.

Chiron Conjunct Chiron Synastry

Chiron conjunct Chiron synastry indicates you’re either of similar age or around 50 years apart. You likely have mutual scars, which creates an unspoken understanding. You can intuitively understand the depth of each other’s suffering in a way that others cannot.

This mutual recognition makes you feel truly seen, accepted, and understood in the relationship. Words may become unnecessary as your souls can communicate through the language of shared experience.

Your relationship fosters empathy and compassion, where you each know when to lead and when to follow, when to hold space and when to be held. As you help each other navigate wounds, you might just stumble upon the cure for yourself.

This aspect can also bring a divine purpose to the relationship, as if your union is meant to catalyze both personal and collective healing. Together, you may be drawn to helping others in humanitarian pursuits, becoming a beacon of hope for those struggling with similar hurts.

Chiron Sextile Chiron Synastry

Chiron sextile Chiron synastry speaks of a soul-level agreement to heal together. You remind each other that the healing path isn’t meant to walk alone. This aspect can create a profound sense of camaraderie, kindness, and acceptance between you.

Together, you may actively look for healing opportunities instead of waiting for them. You may regularly swap self-help books or share your favorite spiritual blogs.

The beauty of this aspect is its gentleness. You don’t confront your wounds intensely, but rather explore them with peace. It’s like you have a therapist who’s also your best friend – minus the hefty hourly rate and the awkward silence.

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Chiron Square Chiron Synastry

Like the centaur Chiron who was accidentally wounded by Hercules’ arrow, Chiron square Chiron synastry can mean one of you unintentionally hurt the other. You’re called to embrace the karmic lessons this aspect brings: your words, actions, and attitude can profoundly affect each other.

You may project your unresolved pain onto your partner. For example, if one person has abandonment issues, they might interpret their partner’s need for independence as rejection, even when that’s not the intent.

The square can also create a sort of “wounded healer’s dilemma.” You can see each other’s hurts as clearly as the sky, but your attempts to help can worsen things. You will eventually realize that you can’t heal your partner unless they want to heal themselves.

Chiron Trine Chiron Synastry

Chiron trine Chiron synastry can create a natural understanding between you. You both speak the same language of hurt and healing. There’s a sense of “I’ve been there too” that creates a deep bond.

This aspect fosters good intuition in the relationship. You can empathize with each other’s childhood trauma and be tolerant of each other’s weaknesses.

The best thing is you can easily share healing wisdom. You both approach past wounds with a sense of hope, believing in your ability to overcome challenges. You understand that your life is a sunny path, so you don’t let a few rainy days ruin the whole path.

Chiron Opposite Chiron Synastry

With Chiron opposite Chiron synastry, you can see the reflection of your wounds staring back at you. You may project insecurities onto each other.

This projection can create a cycle of blame, making it difficult to take responsibility for one’s mistakes. You may react strongly to your partner’s weaknesses, only to later realize that you’re dealing with your own weaknesses. What makes you feel irritated about your partner can provide deep wisdom about yourself.

Breaking this cycle requires you to understand that it’s not about the fighters in the fight, but it’s about the fights within the fighters. The fights within can manifest as the fights without. You’re not fighting your partner, but fighting unhealed aspects of yourself.